I've had a few days to unfrustrate myself, and think a bit, and here are my responses.
I scoffed at the mention of COLREGS. However that doesn't mean that I completely ignore them. I'm not overly concerned with those regulations made for sea travel, however I do (mostly) follow those that immediately affect me. I've taken my boater safety course, I've read up and learned what I needed to to ensure the safety of myself, my passengers, and those boaters around me. The reason that I scoffed was because I'm not going to live my boating life, or make decisions about what my boat is or is not equipped with based on a few lines in a regulation book. Some people enjoy living their lives according to every word in the bible, I don't. But that doesn't mean I'm stupid, ignorant, or proud to be either of those. Those who boat around me can rest assured that I know the rules of the road, and I know how to ensure that you nor your boat will be injured or damaged.
Additionally, we are "fair weather weekend boaters". We live aboard, however we work full time and spend (up until now) 90% of our time tied to the marina dock. If it's raining, we aren't going out. If it's overly windy, we aren't going out. If its foggy, we damn sure aren't going out. And if there's too much local boat traffic, we stay at the dock. I can't predict what other boaters will do, and because this is our home, we don't take any major chances getting into a situation that may increase our risks of damaging or losing our home.
When I asked, what I see now is a poorly worded question, and probably a completely unnecessary one, "what can radar do", it was based solely on my own boating experiences. That means that when we go out into the bay on our little 7nm away from home weekend trip, I can see the commercial ships in the ship channel from miles away. I can see the kayaker on my starboard side. I can see the shore line. I can see the oncoming weekend cruiser vessel.
For my boating needs, radar seems like a waste of console space, an unnecessary draw on my power systems, and since my radar system is so antiquated, it seems like technology that doesn't enhance my boating experience. Should we find ourselves venturing out into the gulf, or further down the ICW in the future, that may change.
The only reason that was mentioned, that may be helpful to me, is if it can pick up an oncoming thunderstorm or weather event. And even then, I'm more likely to pick up my cell phone and look at the weather radar according to NOAA than I am relying on a piece of 30 year old radar equipment.