FWT
Guru
- Joined
- Dec 10, 2020
- Messages
- 1,709
- Vessel Name
- Resilient
- Vessel Make
- Helmsman Trawlers 38E
Two points.
The first is, this isn't really a boating question, but a financial one. How much one should spend? The dream could as easily be focused on a property in Tuscany. Hunt down the answer in financial spots or via a trusted advisor.
Second, the boat dream is big enough relative to your balance sheet that you care about the chance of a wrong move, hence your question. Find a way to test the assumption the dream is as great in reality for BOTH of you. Charter, take some classes, but whatever it takes to get below the surface because cruising isn't nearly what the advertisements and videos make it out to be. Instead of dropping the hook and then sip wine from crystal glasses while watching a sunset in designer clothes, many is the evening you will be in grubby clothes crawling into the bilge to take care of something going on with the generator or AC unit so you get through the coming night, or some other chore. The work to fun ratio may surprise you. It is much more work than you might realize. Only then can you answer the question of, whatever the financial cost, or opportunity cost from having a non-earning asset, is that cost worth it to you. If you like it a little, then a little cost is OK. If it becomes a passion you cannot live without, then a larger cost is still worth it. But just maybe the reality under the dream isn't worth it at all and its time to hatch an alternative dream. Reality can be a bitch or a beauty. Find out which it is before jumping.
Here's a serious introspection question for you. Today in your dirt home, if something goes wrong are you more likely to try to handle it yourself or call someone? That something might span many areas from something sickly in the landscape, to drywall patching and paint, to light plumbing / electrical / lawnmower repair / etc. Its an aptitude and attitude question. Boats are work. You won't need landscaping knowledge (LOL) but it does take the aptitude to diagnose and get hands on when possible.
The first is, this isn't really a boating question, but a financial one. How much one should spend? The dream could as easily be focused on a property in Tuscany. Hunt down the answer in financial spots or via a trusted advisor.
Second, the boat dream is big enough relative to your balance sheet that you care about the chance of a wrong move, hence your question. Find a way to test the assumption the dream is as great in reality for BOTH of you. Charter, take some classes, but whatever it takes to get below the surface because cruising isn't nearly what the advertisements and videos make it out to be. Instead of dropping the hook and then sip wine from crystal glasses while watching a sunset in designer clothes, many is the evening you will be in grubby clothes crawling into the bilge to take care of something going on with the generator or AC unit so you get through the coming night, or some other chore. The work to fun ratio may surprise you. It is much more work than you might realize. Only then can you answer the question of, whatever the financial cost, or opportunity cost from having a non-earning asset, is that cost worth it to you. If you like it a little, then a little cost is OK. If it becomes a passion you cannot live without, then a larger cost is still worth it. But just maybe the reality under the dream isn't worth it at all and its time to hatch an alternative dream. Reality can be a bitch or a beauty. Find out which it is before jumping.
Here's a serious introspection question for you. Today in your dirt home, if something goes wrong are you more likely to try to handle it yourself or call someone? That something might span many areas from something sickly in the landscape, to drywall patching and paint, to light plumbing / electrical / lawnmower repair / etc. Its an aptitude and attitude question. Boats are work. You won't need landscaping knowledge (LOL) but it does take the aptitude to diagnose and get hands on when possible.