Your question marks made me go back and re read what I wrote. I came across as rather braggadocious cuz I actually did not get to my point.. Starting young before 10 years old and having an impressive background does not really save me from making mistakes today. In fact, it gives me a false sense of confidence. probably because I learned 95% of what I use prior to the internet I have relied very little on the internet for how to do things.???????
This is very true but I do not fault them a bit. Many I talk to simply want the marina lifestyle and social aspect along with cheap lake front property. For them it is the best of all worlds. That is especially true in our area. You have a huge marina right inside the Cedar Point Amusement Park. Dockage comes with season passes, no walking from the parking lot and early entry to rides. Many of them have mega dinghy's they take for their jaunts.Guess I should have said
Most boat owners barely use their boats TO GO BOATING!
Your post resonates with me. Before boats, I did a lot of traveling with motorcycles. Crossed 17 borders on them actually. For me, the boat is not all that different. It just allows me to take everything with me, and as I get older, camping becomes less appealing. Plus, I like a waterfront view and I'm no longer single. It requires a lot more knowledge, considering my spouse, a lot more money, and more of a commitment.Everybody uses their boats differently. I've seen folks right here on TF that have boats I drooled over, but they use them for a week or so every two or three months.
I've seen others that lead a fulfilling cruising lifestyle on less a month than my margarita bill.
So.... it's not about money.
We've already discussed that it's not about the boat. The boat is just a means to an end.
So what is it??? What is the difference between cruisers and the rest of the boating community?
I do not think it's a fear thing either, even though cases certainly exist.
I think some really want a life of adventure and exploration, and they are willing to do whatever it takes to do it. Wether I like to admit it or not, I'm in that group. To my detriment sometimes, I have been willing to do whatever it takes to fulfill the dream. Hell I gave up everything at 28 to move to Alaska, and buy a float plane. Dragged my then young son into the unknown.
To others, it's just not that important. To them using their boat locally, and perhaps socializing is plenty. Going on Vacation twice a year is enough. That's not bad, maybe it's better.
I could not live a "normal" life. But I recognize and apréciate that a cruiser, or adventurer, or explorer sacrifices a lot. Work, Love, Stability, to live that dream.
I got lucky, and when I was not looking found someone that had that same itch for adventure. But... I would have done it alone if need be, another sacrifice.
In some abstract way, I'm a little bit envious of the folks that are fully content watching the game on Saturday and taking the kids for ice cream on Sunday. I just know that's not me. I don't judge, to each their own. I just know there is more that I have to do before I settle into the chesterfield and watch the world go by.
There is (and has for many years) definitely been that connotation. It's interesting. Why? I mean, no-one looks askance if you buy a convertible sports car and keep it for two years, then sell. You can try woodworking and then change your mind. Get into photography and on to something else next year. No big deal.In some other threads, I felt like there was some sort of negative connotation to the folks who got into this absurd hobby and backed out a short time later. I don't think that way.

In some other threads, I felt like there was some sort of negative connotation to the folks who got into this absurd hobby and backed out a short time later. I don't think that way.
In looking at hundreds of boats in the last 6 months, it seem Nordhavns typically have more engine hrs. for the year than any other boats out there. The folks that buy them seem to use them for extensive travel rather than entertaining at the dock.They often laid down a LOT of miles during those 2-3 years.
Maybe that's because more than a few Nordhavn owners buy them "thinking" they are cruisers... but they aren't. They bought a boat most likely able to cross oceans but never do it. Sure they coastal cruise, but buying a Nordhavn to only coastal cruise just proves they don't really understand cruising and the different types of it.In looking at hundreds of boats in the last 6 months, it seem Nordhavns typically have more engine hrs. for the year than any other boats out there. The folks that buy them seem to use them for extensive travel rather than entertaining at the dock.
Maybe that's because more than a few Nordhavn owners buy them "thinking" they are cruisers... but they aren't. They bought a boat most likely able to cross oceans but never do it. Sure they coastal cruise, but buying a Nordhavn to only coastal cruise just proves they don't really understand cruising and the different types of it.
Self fulfilling prophesies that may be factually untrue are usually pretty true to the people going through them. I have known countless people who want to do something but always find reasons not to. No matter how much advice you give them, like Alice in Wonderland....they believe what they want to and nothing shakes it.
Why I think there is a negative connotation towards people who want to become cruisers and do one year and get out is what I have been saying all along. Today's USA is way too full of people who love activities but really don't have a true hobby or two. Hobbies are something that consumes all your free time. Activity people are those that can afford bundles of equipment that fill garages, attics, storage lots, boatyards, airplane hangers, etc...etc. but do one activity for a very small part of the year. I don't have a problem with that until they start talking salty or brag about their adventure as "experienced", and so forth. They are having fun, are active and obviously (to a point) can afford all their equipment/vehicles, etc. Hurray for that, but don't kid a kidder.
As many say, it's a crazy world..... you bet ....but a lot of USA citizens forget just how fortunate they are to do dang near anything many only dream about. To the point of losing tens of thousands of dollars just to check off something as silly as the Great Loop done just to say they have done it. The bragging more than savoring the tens of thousands of great experiences other enjoy along the way as true cruisers to me is telling.
I am not a cruiser, that is why I am on a trawler forum.
I am a boater most of my life. I am fortunate to live in an area where another anchorage is less than an hour away (marinas too).
I have also gone 20 NM in an hour by speed boat to a better fishing ground. I also travel at Trawler speed (Hull speed) for several hours enjoying the scenery along the way because I want to get to a chosen destination.
I have chartered in Hawaii and BVI but have no desire to travel there by boat. I have gone 300 miles offshore because we wanted to test our navigation abilities to find an underwater mountain range 90 feet below.
I have been to SE Alaska by cruise ship and have no desire to go past the hundreds of anchorages just to go there with my own boat.
Cruisers are a different breed and I enjoy reading about their journeys.
I do not have the cruiser gene.
That is true. We are now in Greece, we see all the dry docks full with thousands of boats and most of them have not even been into the water at all this year. It is still busy with charter boat, but in about a month we will be left with only the people who also spend winter on the boat. We have decided that this year we will cruise around in winter time, our boat has everything it needs to be comfortable in the colder temperatures, so instead of 9 months of the year on the boat we will be 12 months of the year on the boat.Most boat owner barely use their boats!!!!

Not to mention that, unless things have changed in the last 25 years, you don't even need to go through Dent Rapids to go from Washington to Alaska via the Inside Passage.
They are very much doing those things for the love of doing them. They are just doing different things in different ways than what appeals to you.Daredevils and racers/record breakers, glory hounds, money makers and on and on are NEVER the same as people who do thing for the love of doing them.
The line I draw is when people (such as recent looper trying to break a record) do things that are openly flouting rules and putting others in danger. eg: running fast (or at all!) while sleeping in inland waterways, planning to break speed limits in canals by bending the rules, etc. That's just tacky.None of the things you listed are on my list either, but I can fully support that they are legitimate pursuits for those that want to do them. There are lots of ways to have fun and people like different things. Doesn’t make one better than another.
That's similar to what got me. I grew up with smaller boats in inland lakes. That's what I knew (and they were great fun). The minute I found out there were boats you could sleep on... even live on?!Every time I went boating on the west coast of Florida to the various barrier islands in my various runabouts, Tritoons or Waverunners, etc ...I just didnt want to leave as night fell.![]()
They are very much doing those things for the love of doing them. They are just doing different things in different ways than what appeals to you.
None of the things you listed are on my list either, but I can fully support that they are legitimate pursuits for those that want to do them. There are lots of ways to have fun and people like different things. Doesn’t make one better than another.
I'd make a distinction between 'boaters' and cruisers. But yeah, many are new to trawlers and extended cruising.I think I'd not immediately categorize them as actual "boaters" except while actually during the process. Seems to me the destinations -- and the whole idea -- are the draw, not boating per se. (No criticism intended.)
Different from boaters who decide to make the Loop trip.
Maybe...