Right. That's been my experience with Webasto/Espar. I guess my recent experience showed me that generalizing these things to the Chinese clones can be problematic.
My experience with Webasto, Espar, and several Chinese heaters is they work exactly the same. The fuel pump is really a metering device as it doesn't pressurize downstream like most fuel pumps. But like a fuel pump, it has an integrated one-way valve (at least the Chinese ones do and I assume that others have copied). The "tick" of the pump sends a tiny amount through the one-way valve and then it reseats because of a pressure spring. Like a regular fuel pump, it could hold pressure, but the meter simply pushes tiny droplets of fuel into the ambient pressure in the fire chamber.
One could add another manual valve shutoff to the fuel line. In fact, one could install several to be really redundant. Then when the heater is turned on, it will detect a fuel starvation issue and shutdown, giving an error code. The error code will remind you that you have to turn on the valve(s). If there are no extra hand-operated valves, then when the heater shuts down the tick pump shuts down and the normally closed one-way spring-loaded valve in the pump stops any backflow (or draining of the system or air entering the system if an internal vacuum develops.) Your choice.
That was my experience when I accidentally shut off the fuel tank and created a strong vacuum throughout my entire fuel system. The common excessive vacuum problem in fuel lines develops
after the fuel filters when the fuel filters get clogged. My T into the fuel line is beyond the filters (so that the heater gets clean diesel) and was subjected to a strong vacuum. But Racor filter canisters themselves aren't designed to withstand strong vacuums. That is where air got into my system, not via the diesel heater and metering pump. I doubt that is just a benefit of using the Chinese heaters with a backflow prevention in the metering pump. I would assume Webasto and Espar do the same. Before installation of a Webasto/Espar meter, suck on the downstream side of the meter to check?
If one is concerned that their heater pump may not have this common feature, there are one-way fuel line valves available for about $5. Just install one of those in addition to the pump. No need to have the heater give an error code to remind one to turn on a manual valve.
When using the term "day tank," I tend to think of gravity fed tanks above the heater/stove. Over the years, I have replaced two of those in favor of a T and meter pump in the main fuel line. Mainly for safety reasons but it is nice not to screw around pouring diesel into a little tank on deck. The only downside is the "tick" of the pump can be heard at anchor. It is not too difficult to reduce that (by not using the bulkhead mount that usually comes with the kit).
As to the idea that these heaters are "designed" to use the cheap little tanks that often ship with them, my understanding is that the little tanks allow a heater installation in a vehicle that is gasoline or an offgrid situation where there is no existing fuel tank. No need to use the little plastic tank when there are simpler, safer options on diesel powered boats.