Commenting on quotes from above:
"I did not post a picture in AIS, for security reasons"
If your boat is interesting and maybe even if it is not, photos of it will be posted by others at MarineTraffic.com. When Fintry appears there she has a number of photos. I don't know if you can ask MT to take them down.
"Going by the rules your AIS is to be "ON" 24/7 unless your in drydock."
The requirements for AIS are set forth at 33 CFR 164.46. All of the vessels mentioned there are in commercial operation -- carrying passengers, commercial towing, carrying cargo, dredging, etc. Even for those covered by 33 CFR 164.46(b), the requirement is that AIS be on "at all times while the vessel is underway or at anchor, and, if moored, at least 15 minutes prior to getting underway; except when its operation would compromise the safety or security of the vessel or a security incident is imminent." So, it can be off when the commercial vessel is tied to a dock, any dock.
"I know there is a rule addressing RADAR. Working and ON and "manned" but not required on recreational boats.
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People 'forget' to turn their VHF on."
The COLREGS at Rule 7 require the use of radar "if fitted and operational". While there is no requirement that recreational boats of our size carry radar, if you do have it and it is working, you must use it.
As for VHF, there is no requirement for recreational boats under 65' to have a VHF. Over 65', all vessels are required to monitor channel 16 and to monitor channel 13 at the helm. This requires 3 VHF radios as scanning is not permitted and when you need to use a working channel, you may not use the radios that are monitoring 16 and 13.
Jim