I've had some painful separations in the past and in all cases knew in time it was better for me and for them. May take some time to be in that frame of mind about it but it will almost always happen. And the freedom of being single can bring, for many, more joy and happiness than otherwise. But the draw of marriage is strong so enjoy the freedom of being single while you can. The time when you can "be all that you can be" as a single person will come sooner than you expect.
I remember you RED and am glad your'e back.
North Western Washington State USA