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Old 01-28-2022, 02:56 PM   #41
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Ironic or tragic, but I can't see the humor.

Yes, it was a sarcastic reply to the poster who feels that Jim Fixx's death while running is somehow karma because he promoted a healthy lifestyle. I'm not sure he knows what karma really means.


I should have used the sarcasm font, sorry about that.
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Old 01-29-2022, 06:53 AM   #42
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Old 01-29-2022, 05:47 PM   #43
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My experience exceeds expectations mostly because I had no expectation I would live to be 78!



But considering the actualities, old age isn't as hard as I expected. I haven't forgotten anything, but remembering any of it clearly takes longer. Pauses in conversation while I rummage through my cerebral Rolodex for the name or date.


I am more easily diverted; start a task and interrupt for another because I thought about it.


Physically, I'm doing great. No longer chop wood; recently decided single-handing my trawler wasn't the best idea, but no real infirmities; I can walk farther than my labrador is willing to go. Have given up skiing because I am no longer willing to break long bones.



They say that in old age, every minute should be treasured...but I'm still more than happy to piss time away unproductively.


Genetically, I can't explain my current life; I've outlived my father's "pull date" and while my mother lived to 94, her last two decades were pretty joyless.



I believe one very big factor in the quality of my "golden years" has been my daughter who is now 23 (you do the math) and has truly has given me "new life."
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Old 01-29-2022, 06:35 PM   #44
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Going to miss you up north, Bill. Great shot of your daughter.
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Old 01-29-2022, 06:58 PM   #45
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Going to miss you up north, Bill.
Not as bad as it seems, many of the places we enjoyed in BC are accessible by other means:

2022 Toyota: $31,000
MV Coho to Victoria: $91
buttery croissant at Barb's Buns in Ganges: priceless

...and, of course, this means more Giants games.

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Old 01-29-2022, 07:28 PM   #46
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Memory is the second thing to go.
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Old 01-29-2022, 08:20 PM   #47
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As I was approaching 70, I had no real plan to retire. Then my wife of forty years died very unexpectedly, turning my life upside down. I had an eighteen foot cuddly cabin in storage because I was too busy to enjoy it. Boating was not in my future or even in my dreams.

A chance reconnection with someone I had been close to before we went our separate ways led to a brand new life. We were aboard her brother’s boat in the Sea of Cortez when I proposed. She was living in another state in a community with its own marina. She had owned an eighteen foot boat similar to mine but didn’t enjoy boating by herself. I closed my practice, retired and moved to La Conner, Washington where we were married.

The day we returned from our honeymoon, we found the Bayliner 3288 that was going to be the only boat we would ever need. It was perfect for us, that is, until an automobile accident cost my wife most of her right hand. The Bayliner would no longer work for us so we started looking for a boat better suited to her new limitations.

We sold the old boat (to a couple in their mid eighties) and ordered a new Helmsman 38E pilot house trawler which is scheduled for delivery in the late spring.

Life at 77 is beyond anything I could have imagined even in my fifties.
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Old 01-29-2022, 08:48 PM   #48
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Life at 77 is beyond anything I could have imagined even in my fifties.

Congratulations.


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Old 01-30-2022, 12:13 AM   #49
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Memory is the second thing to go.
Of course it is, what was the first?
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Hubby B: Under duress and coerced by the woman laying beside me.
I think you mean lying unless you guys are swingers. LOL. Sorry too easy and couldn't resist! My apologies, carry on.
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How does getting older compare to expectations?

It happened a lot faster than I expected it to!
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Old 01-31-2022, 01:06 PM   #53
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Our mutual friends you met last October told me that in their view you both were in your fifties ; Don’t change your habit 👍 , Keep Up !

Oh! They are so kind!
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Oh! They are so kind!
Or their eyesight is getting worse!
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Reminds me of a time on active duty in California, on the weekend nothing to do so I decided to walk the docks at a local marina. Came upon an older gentleman doing some sanding on his old wooden sailboat. I stopped and complimented on what a beautiful boat he had. He told me that he had been living on her for the past 45 years. He was shaking his head and saying always something to do on an old wooden boat. Then paused and said " I would have died peacefully years ago if it weren't for the stubborn old bitch." He was 88 years old. Got to love his moxy.
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I'm tempted to relate my own experiences been then think, who really cares? We all have unique stories and experiences and what happens to one person has nothing to do with what will happen to another (in general). So I could go on about my life and things I would have changed, but does it really matter? Nobody will or should change their lives based on what I've done and how it worked out, so I think I'll sit this one out. I think this sums it up for me:

"Youth is wasted on young people"
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Wifey B: Health declines are generally not linear but more like shelves with some form of acute exacerbation leading to the next shelf.

This is an interesting observation / analogy. When I look what my grandmother went through making it to 99, I can recall the "shelves" clearly. Same with my father, who made it as far as 97 (after managing to renew his FL driver's license at 94, just before he went blind). An amazing side note to this, at least in my opinion, is that both of them died with VALID licenses! I can remember my grandmother telling me she got her first license from Sears & Roebuck...
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At 76, I have come up to some existential questions that have yet to appear in this discussion. When should I quit driving? When should I stop cruising alone? Or sell the boat? Should wait for an accident to tell you you’ve waited too long?
I expect that significant others will have opinions, but I expect I’ll have to make most of these myself. An then there is that garage full of boat stuff…
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As that great American Philosopher, Toby Keith says, "I'm not as good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was."
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I think you mean lying unless you guys are swingers. LOL. Sorry too easy and couldn't resist! My apologies, carry on.
Yes, I just got a lesson in intransitive vs. transitive. Wifey B better educated than I am. lol
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