Denverdon, you have to remember Wifey B was a child bride. Hubby B paid many goats and sheep for her but he still got a bargain.
Wifey B: Goats and sheep....wonder how many it took. I hope lots of sheep, not so many goats.
I was 21 when we met in 2000, got married on my 22nd birthday. I think even for a 98 year old, 1982 isn't thought of as recent. Well, might be, but then they might think it is 1985 now. I know an 86 year old with Alzheimer's and she functions well in the present, better than many, but time and years are completely lost. Everytime age comes up and she's told she's 86, she says "86? I sure don't feel 86." She has no idea the year, but it doesn't matter. Time and dates aren't important. What is taking place right now is. As to feeling 86, who knows what 86 is supposed to feel like? I know if we expect it to be like 26, we're going to be upset. I thought 30 would be hard for me and 40 would be for hubby, but when life is good, none of that matters.
I'm very much a live in the present sort of girl. Hubby worries. I just worry about him worrying. But can't change the past and you don't know the future. Sure as heck better then make the most of the present.
I like to tease on age and fine getting teased back, but perhaps the reason I don't fear it is I spend a lot of time with two couples around 60 and then I see how active older people are here. I'm learning from those who added years, but didn't age in attitude. Maybe like the lady who is 86, I sure don't feel my age, but then I never knew what it was supposed to feel like. I feel good, lucky, healthy. What more could anyone ask for?