BandB good post. We’ve been cruising for 7 years now after 30+ years of boat ownership. Found it amazing how different the experience is between them. Thought after ocean racing understood blue water. Was totally clueless. Thought I had some knowledge of how to be a tourist but found with long term cruising you live among the people in the areas you visit so it’s a totally different thing. Have had wonderful conversations started in hardware stores, launder mats and other mundane places leading to friendships and great enjoyment. Of course places are interesting but so are the people. Yes, there’s a us and them attitude between the cruising community and the general population but there’s many ways to break through. Strongly recommend volunteering in local projects wherever you find yourself. Wife calls me a social infarct. I’m happiest at anchor when there’s no one else around. Never get bored on a boat. Realize that’s a backward attitude and it annoys her but probably a reflection of spending my professional life dealing with other peoples problems. People are diverse.
Go cruising, go now, do whatever floats your boat.
Wifey B: We love walking through towns, even the oldest with the least stores remaining. Finding the long time store still there. Oh god nothing beats an old fashioned soda fountain or ice cream shop. Most of all local art galleries and museums. We love to purchase local arts and crafts and do so for both personal and business use. As to the museums, from the Smithsonian to the one horse town with it's one room museum. Amazing what you learn in just the one room, especially if the lady running it has lived there for 60 years. Nothing better than local festivals and craft fairs either.
We are not art experts. Don't even want to be. We just want to like it or not based on how we like looking at it. Does it turn us on? We've had times we would decide to buy one painting for ourselves and we'd quickly send photos of all the others to our art buyer. We'd step out for a moment and then back in while on the phone. We've had more than one occasion of it going like this. We'd step back in.
Artist: I have your painting wrapped. Anything else I can help you with.
Us: Yes, how much for the paintings on that wall.
Artist: Which one?
Us: All 16.
And then we went with the artist to a local shipper and arranged to get them all home. We're personally out of the picture at that point but we have artists and craftspersons in various places that out business buys from regularly now based on our one stop in their store.
We also step out of our comfort zone when sightseeing. Yes, hubby will never pass the chance to see a lighthouse nor I to see a zoo but we travel with a diverse group and all choose things to see. The 20 year old girls with us are not baseball fans, but they loved Cooperstown. But they've also loved a night at Yankee Stadium and one at Fenway and Comiskey. Motown, Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. Grand Ol Opry. Guess we have eclectic tastes but I prefer to just think open to all.
A little example. We got married in Vegas and our honeymoon was there. Oh loved all the shows and dancers. Loved Folies Bergere and Jubilee and backstage at Jubilee. Loved all the musicians. However, one show stands out beyond all the rest. Wayne Newton. Yes, you heard me right.
Hubby said, this is the nearest we can come to old Vegas, when it was about the stars and you had Sinatra and Sammy Davis and Dean Martin and even Elvis. The one left is Wayne Newton. His voice wasn't what it once was but his showmanship sure was. You saw a relationship with his audience that you can't get in huge coliseums. People came back year after year and came to celebrate anniversaries and he walked around the stage that went out into the crowd and spoke to all of them and requested champagne for them. An then our bigmouth "sister" (a lot more to that story but she was 19 at the time) had made sure they knew it was our honeymoon and he came to out table and had champagne brought. Then she boldly announced that we sang. Here we are trying to remain incognito and Wayne Newton calls us up to sing. First a song of just us and then one with him. Omg, singing on stage in Vegas and the crowd applauding. He told us to stay seated after the show but also Tiffany said she felt she deserved a kiss. So, now 30 years later she still has the photo on her wall of Wayne Newton kissing her. Before that night she didn't know who he was. After the show he came and talked to the five of us at our table for about 15 minutes. That was a history lesson. That night we learned what old Vegas was about.
We're not train collectors but we still enjoy railroad and train museums. We don't even like flying, but we enjoy airplane museums. Of course we never miss a boat or marine museum.
Neither of us ever liked history in school, but we both love all the local museums, it just seems so much closer and like we're learning it at the source.
You may say you don't like opera and I understand as opera and ballet are things I can take only in moderate doses, but one time in your life go to an Italian opera house or, if not, go to a true opera house in the US like the Metropolitan Opera in NY. Experience the majesty.
None in our group drink beer but we had to check out Bay Street Biergarten in Charleston and had a blast watching cornhole and listening to the band and playing trivia.
Even those of you who are old, even the ancient ones, may think you've experienced it all but you've really only experienced a small part of what's out there. I'd suggest on all future cruises enjoy the places you've been often, but also make a point for some new experiences.
Go ride a horse along the beach somewhere. I can't promise you that you'll run across Hannah Davis riding there, but can't swear you won't and can promise you you'll enjoy the ride.