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Old 11-12-2019, 07:27 PM   #161
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Originally Posted by Wayfarer View Post
My worst enemy right now is my own incompetence. There's just so much I don't know, and the learning curve is awfully steep from where I'm sitting. I need a turbo charged infusion of knowledge and hands on instruction.

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Wifey B: Wrong. Your worst enemy right now is you, the boss, who is so intolerant of what you the boater don't know yet. Learning curve is normal but it's not the problem, it's you beating yourself up over it. You, the boss, are making the job miserable for you, the boater.

Now, be kinder and gentler to yourself and don't focus 24/7 on the boat, but find some escape. Then get some help in Annapolis. But mainly as boss you keep in mind that boater you is new and hasn't had time to learn it all but will over the months and years.
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